13 Best Remote Control Vibrators for Giving and Receiving Pleasure 2025
The are plenty of settings to choose from, including nine vibrating functions and 10 suction settings, so rest assured you won’t get bored. Not only is this petite and packed with vibration patterns to play with, it’s also amazing value for money. Our panel found it easy to grip thanks to its small size viberator, and said the tapered shape was able to provide precise stimulation that helped them achieve more intense orgasms than other toys they’d used. This winning Womanizer toy is designed to mimic the sensations of oral sex, with gentle waves and pulsations taking orgasms to a new level. Our testers loved the ‘autopilot’ feature, which automatically controls the suction speed and depth in a way that mimics oral sex from a partner.
In fact, there are a bunch of different kinds of vibrators out there—and it’s sensible to understand each kind before selecting one (or a few) to spend money on. According to their website, the Doxy Original Massager is 30 percent more powerful than Hitachi’s wand. Its large head and buttons make it easy to maneuver and change settings. I can’t test for whether the Doxy is exactly 30 percent more powerful, but it nonetheless had the same “foolproof orgasm” vibes — literally and figuratively — as other wands. Yes, the Womanizer is a suction toy, meaning it’s not this writer’s favorite.
Organic water and oil based lubricants are suitable for use with glass, metal, and silicone sex toys – they also nourish the skin, alleviating any vaginal dryness or discomfort from vaginal tightness. This elegant metal toy has a lot to offer for both cis and trans guys, says Richards. “For myself and my other vulva-having partners, curved metal wand toys are almost universally a guaranteed orgasm,” he says.
Either wash your sex toys after use with soap and water and wipe down with a flannel. Where some are more than happy to talk about sex toys with their friends and partner, others still view them as a taboo subject. There’s no shame in either school of thought, but for the curious, it’s important to know what’s what. While the Magic Wand (above) works just fine on its own for penises and vulvas alike, you may as well throw this attachment into your cart along with the wand if you want your (or someone else’s) dick to be enveloped in vibration. I love using this toy on partners because of the intensity of the ridged and beaded texture on the inside; it’s fun to watch someone react to it as I stroke it up and down with the vibration turned on. Brad Garrison, a registered psychotherapist and relationship issues specialist, recommends this for guys who want a toy that’s straightforward and easy to use.
So we spoke with experts and tested some for ourselves to find the best wand vibrators around. This dual-action couples massager is so high-tech, it’s as if it were sent to us from the year 3000 by benevolent, sex-savvy innovators who have totally nailed the whole simultaneous orgasm thing. The Duo can pleasure both partners at once with its two motors, multiple vibrating patterns and a wireless remote that helps operate the toy by coordinating with the user’s hand movements. Check out the Lelo site for detailed instructions on how to get the most pleasure out of the massager. It uses built-in sensors to see how your body responds to it in real time, and offers insight on what kind of stimulation works best for your sexual pleasure via a companion app.
Brace yourself to experiencethe boundless joy of Satisfyer Connect App, heralding an unprecedented avenue to command your pleasure. Imagine vibrations synchronized to the rhythm of music, or the abilityfor your partner to orchestrate your toy’s sensations througha smartphone, regardless of your physical distance. Transcend the boundaries of pleasure and ignite a symphonyof sensations that knows no limits.
“Silicone or glass dildos are the best quality,” says Khalili, and this set doubles down on the latter option. One is pink and one is clear; the pink dildo is curved , with nodules along the shaft and bulbed tips at either end. If you and your partner are interested in exploring BDSM but are not into the black-leather vibe, this kit, with pre-tied knots made of natural fiber, is a good place to start.
